There are countless great depths in a man-woman relationship/fellowship. I strongly have a desire for people to understand their sexuality; identify with their sexuality, allowing for changes where needed; cherish their sexuality and bask in countless dimensions of the expression of their sexuality (within the confines of a civilized and cultured life-style).

It is spiritually more progressive for people to see the book, "Song of Songs" in the light of what it simply is: love, sex, romance... We may draw inferences or connotations here and there and apply in our relationship with God. However, strictly looking at the book squarely in the light of "Christ-believers" relationship, is begging the question, to say the least. It shows spiritual naiveness, bigotry, shallow-mindedness... Such an individual is simply running away from something... (Notwithstanding, a great desire groans within me. It is a desire for saints in light to understand who they REALLY are in Christ Jesus, their fellowship with Him and their rights and privileges. True believers must not be ignorant of the TRUE meaning/implications of their ONENESS with Christ and the Father. We learn of these realities by looking into the person and nature of Jesus of Nazareth, his earth-life, his teachings.)

A lot of people do not want to see things the way they simply are. They choose to ‘believe’ their minds. Heaven bears me witness that even the God many worship is not necessarily the God and Father of the Lord Jesus Christ. Rather, it is the God they have ‘carved’ for themselves in their minds!

Wisdom tells us that there exists a great manipulation of the minds of humans in the occult of the devil. Principalities, powers, rulers of the darkness of this world, spiritual wickedness in the high places, Satan – the god of worldliness and even men and women with reprobate minds (who consciously work for the enemy, agents of Satan, one may say) ALL tirelessly work – day-in, day-out to destroy, confuse, blind, darken and kill the minds of humans.

For us to see things the way they really are, our minds must be renewed. We must not believe a thing simply because it sounds or looks right. We must not believe a thing simply because it does not sound or look right. We must go deep into the inner recesses of the spiritual (by the Spirit of Truth) and see and acknowledge TRUTH for what it simply is, irrespective of ‘whatever’, ‘whoever’.

Satan did not give sexuality to us. It has been given (with greater glory today) to us by God, the Father. He is the creator and possessor of heaven and earth and all that are in them – both visible and invisible.

Sex in itself is not evil, dirty or wrong. The problem is not sex. The problem is the depravity and corruptness of people’s minds. Sex is pure. It is sacred. But what do we make out of it? Are we using it aright or are we abusing it? How do we view our sexuality? I do believe that sex is sacred. Hence, it goes beyond the physical and beyond the emotions. It goes deep into the spiritual.

God does not go ‘out the window’ when couples engage in love play, love coupling (sexual intercourse)… He is in the midst thereof! Also, I don’t think we should give rules and regulations on what couples should and should not do in the privacy of their bedrooms, in the privacy of their ‘love closet’. I do not believe perversion, deviation or the like exists here. The law here is love and consent. Period.

Perversion, it seems, exists in the mind of some. It resides in the ‘thinking’. The main reason being that their minds are depraved. In true reality, to the pure all things are pure! Humanity has had enough of rules and regulations! Husbands and wives should be left alone to do what they please. Let’s stop criticizing, condemning, … lest we find ourselves judging wrongly, thereby bringing condemnation (from God) on ourselves.

It is important to note that having a mentality that regards sex as simply physical and just fun is like feeding on the wind, like a striving after wind. Vanity always rears its ugly head here. We need to look at and deal with sex as something that has eternal consequences. If we want to be in God’s favor and reap surprised blessings, our view of sex should accommodate love, commitment, sincerity and openness (plainness or self-disclosure – nothing to hide). Couples engaging in sex should see (in their mind’s eye) love streaming from their whole beings to their partners.

Complete intimacy, sex play, love coupling is achieved when couples see, identify with and bask in the spiritual aspects and/or implications of sex (or sexuality). A ‘magical’ reality (for lack of better words) strives here. The man and the woman are both immersed in the ‘waters’. They may see lights, fire, rainbows... The world stands in oneness, in unity before them; a new, unique assurance of oneness with the universe (creation, cosmos) burgeons; awe and glory are made manifest as they dance together, basking in a wonderful union of joy!