Three Sexual Injunctions! (TSI)

(Continued discourse on husband, wife; father, mother relationship) (Talking to him – husband; her – wife)

“Whenever you see her, see yourself. Whenever you see yourself, see her!”
“Whenever you look at him, see yourself. Whenever you look at yourself, see him!”

In relating with her, conceive of her as “me”, “myself”, “I” … Just as much as you love yourself and tolerate yourself, love her, tolerate her (and vice versa).

See her as yourself; see yourself in her. See him as yourself; see yourself in him. See her as an expression, a manifestation of yourself. See him as an expression, a manifestation of yourself. See yourselves as an extension, one of the other. See each other as a complimentary whole, rather than as “my other half”.

Visualize these realities. See them in your mind’s eye always, again and again. In good times, in bad times or in-between; in fine times, in fair times or in fair-to-fine times: SEE, BEHOLD, HOLD-UNTO, GRIP-FIRMLY, VISUALIZE, CONCEIVE, CONCEPTUALIZE all these things, ideas, ideals, projections…

“Engage in love coupling freely [drink freely, eat freely]!”

It is highly recommended (beneficial) to put off restraints, stiffness, and uptightness during love-play… Be absorbed in each other, in the moment in reckless abandonment.

Evolve to a place where both of you are not bound by “rules” and “regulations” as to what is “right” and “wrong” between you two sexually. The two of you, in oneness, ought to be free to do anything together, to each other, with both of you being the only mortal, active participants. This is your fundamental right! All you need is love and consent – mutual selfless love and intelligent, sacred, (bold) and sacrificial consent.

TSI – 3

“Sexual relations should be between you two only.
This should be consistently maintained!”

Direct and/or focus your sexual energies on each other alone. He should channel the sex urge to her body and her person only. She should channel the sex urge to his body and his person [only].

You may have found yourself looking at or thinking about someone and hoping, longing, desiring, planning to have a sexual relation or encounter with the individual. This is because consciously or unconsciously, variably or invariably, you directed, focused or channeled the sex urge to that being. You may have seen in or projected to this third party either your spouse’s body or person [or even both body and person]. Or you may have projected the “ideal” body and/or person (existing in your mind of “fantasia” [and thanks to the media!]) to this third party…

We may infer then that to gain the victory, (of faithfulness and fidelity) one must aspire to be disciplined enough to direct, focus or channel his/her sex urge, desires, needs, energies to “the one and only”. In a sense, we may say that it is advisable to avoid seeing your spouse in someone else. Avoid seeing his/her body and/or person (in a sexual way) in a third party!

Oh-Ah! – Oghenekaro E. Akamune!!