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nebi is an acronym. nebi [NEH-BE] IS "Never Ending Blending of Identities" . The concept of nebi - Never Ending Blending of Identities between a man and a woman in a "friendly, romantic and divine (spiritual)" relationship is the crux of all deliberations here, at nebilove institute. In a nutshell, this institute seeks to identify, understand, acknowledge and disseminate facts, realities and associated nuances existing in the relationship. Generally speaking, there is a presupposition that this relationship is threefold in its expression. It is friendly; it is romantic, erotic and/or sexual; it entails a "soul-union" of sorts - it is sublime, bordering on, impinging on and even enveloped in the sacred, the spiritual. At nebilove institute , love coupling (i.e. sexual intercourse) is given an exalted status of "love-expression" between a man and a woman. Sex is beautified. Human sexuality is glorified. Intricacies of love coupling compel us to promote the viewpoint that says, "Such an expression of feelings, desires, energies, wishes, love... should be within the confines of the marriage umbrella." The act of a couple "going all the way" perforce brings in some serious key obligations, responsibilities and accountability. The failure to meet these expectations would result in sorrows, bitterness, hatred, pain, dislike and much discomfort - not only to the couple but also by extension to the wider society (in some ways). It is important for a society to put systems and structures in place to help regulate human sexual activities. Thoughtless, careless and purposeless sexual expressions can threaten the advancement of human civilization and culture. Civilization itself could be in jeopardy... We extol the marriage institution. Therein is the safe and secure room for lovemaking. Therein is the benign home of tried, tested and true love; of unconditional, unrestricted, undying, ever-expanding love. At least the clear assurance of the unfettered opportunities to experience this love and its expression through sex is found in marriage. If you abuse your sexuality, you would be taking an unwise risk. This is neither good for you nor for your community (society). "Wherein can one find such unconditional, unrestricted, undying, ever-expanding love {: then sex} except in marriage!" Marriage is the most ideal and highest of all human relationships. Couples should consider their existing marital unions as a great blessing. Such a relationship is grand; it is an end in itself. It is not a means to an end. The husband and wife, as co-equals should seek to maximize the inherent potentials of their stupendous camaraderie. To do this, they have to walk in unity and in love. Beliefs, rules, value-systems, "memes", norms, traditions and customs that give man any undue advantage over woman [or vice-versa] must be shunned! Societies everywhere must seek to actualize the ideal. Remember, the success of a civilization rests mightily on the success of the families contained therein. Here, "in" Nebilove Institute, we make conscious efforts to uphold and promote the high and ideal concepts of marriage. We wholeheartedly believe that marriage is honorable. The reality is: "men and women find their highest service and consequent joy in the establishment of homes for the reception and training of children." Clearly, they are (or become) co-creators, co-partners with God, in the process! Come in with an open mind. We welcome you with open arms; adhering to the currents of hope - hope that you would learn and be encouraged. We look at you with joy and fulfillment bubbling forth in our hearts - joy that you would be enlightened, enhanced and expanded in many ways... Hola!   sincerely, ecstatic lights of eros, Oghenekaro E.K.D. Akamune. (President)     "Civilization can never flourish, much less be established, until man has leisure to think, to plan, to imagine new and better ways of doing things." [Urantia Book 902:4] "We teach people to be flexible, scientific and logical in their thinking and therefore be less prone to brainwashing..." [Albert Ellis]

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